The Best Thing I Did Was Decide What I Was NOT Going to Do
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The Best Thing I Did Was Decide What I Was NOT Going to Do

When I realized I had nine days to get ready to move, my first instinct was exactly what you would expect from someone with a project management background.

Make a list.

Actually, make several lists. Even better if it's in Excel!

I am very good at making a giant list of everything that could possibly need to happen and then convincing myself that all of it is equally important.

This time I did something a little different.

I started taking things off.

Watch the full moving vlog here:

Not everything needed to happen before moving day

There were things I absolutely had to deal with.

There were also things that would have been nice to finish, organize, clean out, rethink, or improve before I left.

Those are two very different categories.

I decided pretty quickly that I wasn't going to pack the apartment myself. I hired movers to do that.

I wasn't going to completely reorganize every drawer before it went into a box.

I wasn't going to turn decluttering into some massive minimalist purge.

And if something could reasonably wait until I got to the new house, it waited.

Honestly, that probably helped me more than anything else.

The question I kept asking myself

Whenever I caught myself adding another thing to the list, I asked:

Does this actually need to happen before I move?

Sometimes the answer was yes.

A surprising amount of the time, the answer was no.

That doesn't come naturally to me. I like being prepared. I like knowing I've thought through every detail.

But nine days gave me a very good reason to stop treating every task like an emergency especially to keep my sanity alive.

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For now, I still have plenty to do.

Just considerably less than I could have given myself.

And I am very okay with that.

Btw, the video does show a sneak peek of my new home so I hope you'll watch and share in the joy with me.

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